In an increasingly hostile environment, we found a safe space to play. Six young people came together for our latest quarterly outing at Refugee Youth Service, this time we went bowling. Language barriers meant we couldn’t rely on talking to each other, but who needs to talk when there’s cheering on new friends and celebrating strikes.
In from the cold on a windy day, one young person arrived in only a t-shirt. Lane barriers up and bowling balls selected, now it was time for our first game. Fanta’s all around and watching other people play for some tips and tricks. There was a little hesitation at first but after a couple of rounds there were big smiles, cheeky giggles, a pat on the back and a consolation sigh of just missing that last pin.\
Next we moved to the bright lights of the arcade games. An over-excited game of pool resulted in an accidental ball being flicked under the other machines, racing games were played, time-limited basketball was won, air hockey doubles and finishing up with selfies to share the joy. New friendships were formed. A hot meal together was then followed by a gift of a warm hat and gloves with some sweet treats.
For many unaccompanied minors there are lots of important adult decisions consistently, navigating complex legal processes and age assessments in inappropriate accommodation. A moment like this bowling trip to be able to play and have fun with people of a similar age, in a similar situation becomes a necessity to stay well. It is a truly bonding experience.
Which bowling ball? Air hockey or basketball? Burger or chicken strips?
These are the decisions young people should be facing.
